Yes, I am raising a little rebel. For her birthday this year, Rebekah wanted to get the top of her ear pierced, so yesterday we made it happen. I know my mom would never have let me do that (sorry Mom!). So, why did we let Rebekah? She is heading into what for me was some challenging years growing up. I remember always struggling to fit in, feeling like I was always trying to keep up with what everyone else was doing. We wanted Rebekah to be a leader, to feel confident in stepping out and doing some first. 
So instead of following the trends that all her friends are setting, to instead be the trendsetter. I know that it sounds like a silly thing that an ear piercing would be one of those things, but we felt it was just a small example. The piercing is a tangible reminder that it's okay for her to be a little different than her friends, to try new things, and not do something just because everyone else is doing it. Besides, we think she looks really cute!
She is adorable and the earring is an excellent way to pick your battles. A piercing is such a minor deal in the scheme of life.
Posted by: Marcia Feisal | July 12, 2009 at 08:46 PM